How my journey began

Aloha, I’m Kai, a Certified Professional Integrative Life Coach; Dating + Confidence Coach, Breakup Support Coach, and Career Specialist. I have always had a passion for personal well-being. I chose this path because early on I received so much satisfaction from offering coaching type services to friends and associates. With coaching and consulting, I love being a part of the positive transformation in my client’s dating, career, business, and whole life. I’m a fan of Dr. Pat Allen’s work on Feminine and Masculine energies. I incorporate my interpretation of this into coaching. I have studied her work and knowledge and it is remarkable how much dynamics can improve.

Together, we can clarify your goals, brainstorm strategies for overcoming obstacles, and figure out your next steps towards achieving your dreams. Through support and accountability, you will have the tools you need to achieve long-lasting change in your life, career, or dating.

I can help answer questions like: I’m feeling stuck, what can I do? How do I get to work/life balance? What should I do with my life? Why am I feeling this way? How can I make real progress? This was so abrupt, how do I make sense of it, so that I can move forward?

I am a Lifelong learner and passionate about my own personal growth. I am continually participating in training and seminars as I love exposing myself to new ideas, skills, and people. I am an INFJ, Enneagram 4. I’m originally from the Hawaiian Islands and now live in Phoenix, AZ. Some of my loves are live music, nature, art, going for walks, vitamin sea, a cup of tea, and dance.

I believe that many people are simply a few small changes away from massive, prosperous shifts.

What People Are Saying

  • Mindy D.

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    How do I come away and feel like, This solution seems so simple. Why the heck have I been waiting 2 years?! You’re very good at this.

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  • Jules A.

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    That was helpful for getting me back to focus and remembering the tools that I can use to bring me back to a place of peace.

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  • Jon C.

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    I had a lot of anxiety last Monday, felt like I was gonna turn inside out. Talking to you helped more than I would have ever imagined.

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  • Alex B.

    I had a surprisingly powerful experience. Going into it, I had my reservations of what a life coach is and what they could do for me. By the end I was a believer in the process and how it would benefit me. Keolani’s tone, pointed questions, and caring nature were disarming and allowed me to really open up. I found each followup question to be a new possibility in finding direction in my life. They were challenging yet caring queries. The main breakthrough I had was that a great life coach could be just as valuable as a great therapist.

What is Coaching?

Coaching is a tool to help you achieve the success you define for yourself. It can help you improve your life, feel better, and accomplish your goals. Coaches don’t provide you the answers to a challenge. Instead, they partner with you to help you ask better questions and explore your own answers. They serve as a guide while you create a plan, define outcomes, and explore how to move forward.


The International Coaching Federation (ICF) defines coaching as partnering with clients in a thought-provoking and creative process that inspires them to maximize their personal and professional potential.

Motivation comes from within — and I’m here to help you activate it.